So this is probably the only time besides when that one chick angella scammed pretty much a bunch of us that I post anything on here .. I didn’t know where to post or who to talk to or maybe by doing this I will get a response from her ?

but I just did a trade like a month ago with http://rehashclothes.com/chanel136 and Iâ??m not saying she swaplifted me but I DID send my half and Ive left messages but no answer she did answer someone else after me.. so I know she gets on plus I see her online all the time, she did click shipped! a few weeks ago.. im kinda angry cause I try to be as sweet as I can and sometimes when I can throw in freebies.. and went out of my way to get things shipped from PR for people who btw were soooooooo sweet with waiting and all thats just who I am.. I would never take advantage of no one! .. but its so rude and mean! I donâ??t know what to do :( sigh.. someone give me advice! :?

I don’t want to accuse no one but its getting frustrating having to ask all the time .. not like I sit at comp all day but I paid to get her things shipped so the least I should get is a email saying if she got the things or not or if she’s shipping..

Like I said im not in a rush to get things, but am I not allowed to ask about her end after its been awhile?

am I being pushy or should I just wait till she decides to answer me ?

East Elmhurst, NY

You said you did a swap with her a month ago. Has it been a month since you shipped, though? If I were in that situation, I would leave karma as it is due, to help warn other people of what happened in your swap with her. Also, she will most likely notice the karma, and if she wants to remedy it, she will contact you, I’m sure.

Fort Worth, Tx

I’ve swapped with you before and I know you really are a sweat girl. If she’s been reading your messages I suggest that you message her telling her that if she doesn’t at least respond to you, you will leave her appropriate feedback. I wouldn’t leave her bad karma just yet because that opens you up to retaliatory feedback which is irreversible.

I don’t know how my fellow Admin feels about this but we could also message her just to ask her what is going on. How do you feel about getting more involved with issues like this Sandy?

I think anyone with a concern as such, should come to us and relay the issue. We could message each user that is holding out on their end of the trade, but do you honestly think they will listen to us?

I would definitely at least warn the user that you will leave negative feedback if no response is given, and if you receive retaliatory karma, message either Gladiz or myself and we will pass it onto Orlando (he’s got magic) and if approved, the retaliatory karma will be remedied.

Fort Worth, Tx

I think anyone with a concern as such, should come to us and relay the issue. We could message each user that is holding out on their end of the trade, but do you honestly think they will listen to us?

I would definitely at least warn the user that you will leave negative feedback if no response is given, and if you receive retaliatory karma, message either Gladiz or myself and we will pass it onto Orlando (he’s got magic) and if approved, the retaliatory karma will be remedied.

Alright then I think we have our first order of business. Let people message us about their ongoing swap issues so we can contact both parties and try resolve the issue at hand. Would you like to create a forum topic about it?

If they are uncooperative we could do something like not let them list any new items until their current trades are resolved. If they choose to ignore us and list new items we could just simply delete the listings. If they make a trade and the issue is not resolve we could resort to removing all listings. I think it’s this sort of action that will have a reaction. This would help in the Kayla issue as well.

I definitely want to help do what is necessary in solving issues, but don’t you think that could get a little messy? I think in a situation, like with Kayla, that this may be necessary, because of the volume of complaints, but to hold off all trades because of one faulty one seems extreme.

Fort Worth, Tx

P.S. chat in the Admin forum about this please.

Fort Worth, Tx

We would take all options into consideration before deciding something that extreme. It was more a suggestion for severe cases such as the one with Kayla.

Oh right!

Indeed. I think we should keep the decision making chat in the Admin forum, what do you think?

Fort Worth, Tx

I think we should keep the decision making to the Administrating forums. I don’t think anyone wants to read through our discussions but we should post our final decisions for fellow rehashers. I don’t want them to feel like they’re out of the loop.

Definitely.

Fort Worth, Tx

You girls are sooo sweet ! thanks for responding I was going insane .. she finally messaged me so I should be getting a package soon hopefully! I hate leaving bad karma because Like I said I know people have money issues or fam etc and im not in a rush .. but at the same time I like to know whats going on even if its a Hi got ur message get back to you soon. ahh you know what I mean right? lol

East Elmhurst, NY

I just did a swap with her and sent my end, so I’m kind of worried … if I get swaplifted, or any other issues happen where it takes a month to send my end of the swap I’m done with this site. It’s ridiculous.

Don’t give up just b/c some bad lemons got to ya :(

I’d be sad to see anyone go from this site. There are some really good, honest people here! Give Rehash another chance! :rainbow:

Fort Worth, Tx

I’m sure Chanel136 will go through with the swap; I talked with her quite a bit prior to the trade, and she seems genuine. It’s just one particular person who is really getting under my skin.

And you’re right, Sandy. The great trades certainly overweigh the bad trade I’ve had. :heart: I just had a moment of frustration due to an unreliable rehasher. :-(

I never meant to say she was a swaplifter i was just getting annoye dwith no answer back for more than 2 weeks and I it said she sent a few weeks ago so I was just concerned.. I just got a message from her saying she sent it so I should be getting something soon I hope :)

East Elmhurst, NY